Crikey ran a story about how children prefer a Christ-less Christmas. Actually, the article isn't as bad as it sounds, although I'd question the premise of it a bit.
Parents are quite right to reject the sanitised Christmas tableau.
It bears no relationship to the gritty and unsettling story found in the
Bible, which is in itself quite unsuitable for children. It involves
inter-generational marriage, pregnancy out of wedlock, traveling long
distances only to be rejected from bottom-of-the-pile accommodation,
childbirth in squalid conditions, infanticide on a large scale, flight
into refugee accommodation, visitation by strange men bearing ominous
gifts, and generally hanging around with the scum of the earth.
Now, if a sanitised vision of Christmas cheer is under threat in
schools, then I say good riddance. It does irreparable harm because it
represents an impossibly idealised vision of human happiness. This time
of year can be a pit of misery for many of us, and having to put a
happy face on it only makes things worse. Most of the non-religious
carols we sing seem to be about a winter wonderland, which is strange
given the general lack of snow at this time of year. There are
Australian Christmas carols, but who has the time to teach them in the
age of NAPLAN?
Where I have a problem is the premise that sacred and secular are
eternally separated spheres of influence. This is patently not the
case, as the presence of figures in our public life from Tony Abbott
through to Peter Jensen and Jim Wallace demonstrates. There is a
predominance of a particular sort of religiosity among public figures,
and this is a problem. The main public face of religion at the moment
is a very rigid and antagonistic one, and it can be very hard for people
to see that this is not the end of the story. Certain people get away
with bandying around punitive ideas ‘because the Bible says so’ only
because the majority of people don’t have the wherewithal to question it
right to the very bottom. This is very bad news for women, for gay
people, indeed, for anyone who does not enjoy white hetero male
privilege. Unsurprisingly, it was the equivalent of the white hetero
males of around 2,000 years ago who strang up some peasant from Galilee.
As far as Bible teaching and religious education in schools goes, I’d
say parents are absolutely right to run for cover when religion is used
as a tool for ideology. But they owe it to their children to see that
they are culturally literate enough to be able to recognise the misuse
of religion. Religious illiteracy only makes it easier for the pious
quacks to make converts and build influence. They owe it to their
children to make sure that they have enough of a handle to be able to
beat the next generation of public fundamentalists of the world over the
head with it.
The good news of Christmas is that in the middle of all the messiness
of our lives we’re not cut off from something greater. What you
call — or don’t call — that something doesn’t matter so much.